Unreplied messages. Intimacy without commitment. Catfishes and weirdos. Ugh, aren’t you just exhausted by today’s dating culture? If you’re tired of petty love games or situationships, there are several speed dating events in KL where you can meet people in real life and forge genuine connections.
The best part? You get to chat face-to-face, making your intentions clear, and there are no hard feelings or awkward rejections—organisers will match you based on your ratings for each candidate.
So, let’s skip the small talk and get down to flirty business!
1. Take The Leap
Image Credit: Take the Leap on Instagram
Formerly known as Date Well Project, Take The Leap has become one of the most progressive and dynamic matchmaking organisations around. They take their cupid role seriously, while making it plenty of fun! Known for their inclusivity, Take The Leap hosts a wide array of events catering to various backgrounds, age groups, and personality traits.
For instance, their Introvert’s Speed Dating mixer is tailored to both Muslim and non-Muslim participants, creating a relaxed space for introverts who might find it a bit harder to connect with new people.
Among their standout events is Pasar Single, Malaysia’s largest Muslim singles’ mingle, attracting over 100 participants for a day filled with activities and ice-breaking games.
For those who prefer active meetups, there are sporty events like Run for Your Love and Singles in a Pickle, which let singles meet and mingle through sports. Here, the only pressure you’ll feel is from the thrill of the game—less overthinking, more natural connections!
With a packed lineup of events each month, Take The Leap is where we’d gladly take a leap of faith for fun, exciting and organised meetups! Be sure to keep an eye on their social media pages for the latest events.
Price: RM75 – RM125
Contact: 011-26410620
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/taketheleap.my
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taketheleap.my/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@taketheleap.my
2. Pertama Kali
Image Credit: Pertama Kali on Instagram
Surging to virality with their TikTok videos on the FYP, Pertama Kali is challenging the stigma around speed dating in the Malay and Islamic community, focusing on this demographic.
Let’s face it—finding your ‘jodoh’ isn’t like it used to be, when parents played matchmaker and recommend their friend’s-auntie’s-neighbour’s-son, and romance blossomed through handwritten letters like an old-school rom-com.
Today, meeting new people takes more effort, making these events a great way for busy adults to connect with potential matches!
For women, there’s an added advantage: knowing these men are investing (quite a bit) to be here means they’re genuinely serious about finding their forever partner till Jannah.
Pertama Kali keeps it classic with 15 individuals of each gender, rotating every 5 minutes for a speedy yet genuine connection.
Not sure what to say? Don’t worry; you’ll receive a question card to help break the ice. After each round, rate your match on a sheet, and in a few days, the organisers will email you any mutual matches.
Their biggest speed dating event is coming up on November 9, featuring 50 eligible singles, games, activities, and free-flowing food and drinks! Get the details from their social media channels.
Price: RM125+
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pertamakali.my/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pertama.kali
3. Matchbox KL
Image Credit: Matchbox KL on Instagram
Founded by Emily and Joy, they created this organisation to help people that’s experiencing the “swiping fatigue” in the dating scene.
Matchbox KL cater speed dating events for those aged between 25 to 38 years old, and ages are taken into consideration for the table matches. Their sessions are usually 30 people per event, 15 per opposite sexes.
You can also nominate your friends, if you’re tired of them complaining about how single they are or *ehem* if they keep going back to their toxic exes!
Their past events have included Christian Singles, where 98% of attendees are active churchgoers. They’ve also hosted a Mixed Groups speed dating event, bringing together professionals primarily from finance, law, and consulting—clearly, a crowd of grinders who might be a little too busy hustling to find time for dating.
They also recently held a pickle ball speed dating event called “Single & Ready to Pickle”, to ease up tension and encourage a more natural environment for strangers to get to know each other within teams.
They say challenging games are where you can really see someone’s true colours, so isn’t that a plus point? You might be into the dominant and competitive type, no judgements! 😏
Price: RM75+
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchbox.kl/
4. Date Works Co
Image Credit: Date Works Co on Instagram
An all-encompassing relationship organisation, Date Works Co. goes beyond speed dating and matchmaking. Their platform is a full support system for all things dating and relationships as a guidance to navigate through your complex love life.
Through their social media, they spark conversations on everything from managing an anxious attachment style to navigating the early stages of dating and spotting mixed signals from a potential boo.
Besides that, they also host free online webinars led by life coaches for individuals contemplating relationships but are unsure if they’re truly ready to dive in.
Date Works Co. hosts engaging singles events that ditch the usual “interview” vibe for dynamic activities like paint workshops, hiking adventures, and cookie decorating classes, encouraging natural, fun connections among likeminded individuals.
Plus, their discreet matchmaking service pairs you with compatible candidates beyond the event bubble, making meaningful matches their forte.
Price range: RM75 – RM180
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchbox.kl/
5. Rollerphoria
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Rollerphoria is a KL-based roller skate crew aiming to bring the joy of skating to the community. Recently, they’ve conducted an event for you to potentially meet the “loml”, adding a unique twist to roller skating events!
Before hitting the rink, you can pick a tag to let others know if you’re open to meeting someone or just there to vibe with friends and have a ball.
Their past events, like Coffee and Skates and Summer Fling, a vintage summer-themed meetup, invite you to meet new faces while gliding at Rollerwa. With a live DJ setting the mood, you can groove on the rink and who knows? Amidst the music and motion, you just might find love at first glide!
Price: RM75+
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rollerphoria/
6. Mingle and Match
Image Credit: Mingle and Match on Instagram
Mingle and Match is a fresh organization hosting exciting dating events designed to spice up the usual table talk dates. The concept of speed dating was inspired by the founders’ own frustrations with dating apps and the challenge of finding genuine connections. These immersive, in-person events aim to break away from the swipe culture and foster meaningful interactions.
Their inaugural event, Mingle & Match: Murder, Mystery & Mingling, takes place on November 9th and adds an exhilarating twist to speed dating. Participants will take on character roles, gather clues, and solve mysteries while getting to know potential matches!
Will you find love, uncover a secret, or crack the case? Dress to impress and prepare for a night filled with thrilling connections and shocking revelations.
This event is open to individuals aged 25–40, welcoming all races, religions, and backgrounds. For more details, check out their Instagram to sign up and get ready to flirt!
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesocialblenderevents/
With a variety of speed dating events open to the public, this is your chance to showcase your rizz and get flirty in a respectful and safe setting. At the very least, you’ll leave with a new buddy to network with or hang out.
